Would I recommend my job to another woman?

In my blog, I have been going through a lot of questions that I get asked. One question that has been on my mind is what would I tell another girl if she wanted to start working? First off, I would tell her, don’t do it. Hey, I know I always say that I like working, so why am I saying, “don’t work”? Is it because I don’t want competition?

Actually, the reason I say this is that I have seen too many girls chewed up by it. Many girls can’t cope with lots of men fucking them casually. A lot of girls become hardened or need a prop. I’ve talked of drugs before but some drink or get addicted to prescription medicines. A lot of the girls lose all confidence in themselves. A lot cannot cope with the disapproval of so many people.


I enjoy fucking and I am happy to be a whore but even for me, it can get too intense. So for these girls, it can trigger depression and worse. I knew one girl who overdosed on sleeping tablets (she was saved) and another who slit her wrists (she was not).


So if the girl insists, then what would I say? I actually had to think this through with a girl I met through a chat room about four years ago. She was a cute Aussie girl but very inexperienced. After I told her what I did for a living, she was fascinated and kept on asking to meet. She was very insecure about her lack of experience and cautious about exploring with the boys she knew. Finally, we actually met – against my better judgement. She wanted to learn and she pushed me to sleep with her and then she wanted a 3-some with me and John. We knew she was not experienced but she hadn’t told us that she was a virgin until after she lost her cherry with John.

After a few times together, she started saying she wanted to work – she was only 18 at the time and both John and me spent a lot of time trying to persuade her not to. But she insisted – she is still working – she has always worked high class brothels and so we never worked together. We are still friends but only catch up once every few months – especially after she started a relationship with a girl she had been to school with. But I guess the point is that I thought hard at that time about whether I should encourage another girl to work and what I would warn.

Before a girl starts working, she needs to answer at least the following – is she able to detach emotionally? Does she have a moral objection to the work? Can she face cleaning up after? Does she like (or at least not dislike) fucking? Is she aware of the dangers – physical and mental? (My husband’s major theme when he tries to argue against working.) Can you face rejection, insults and disapproval?


You have to be able to keep your own feelings down. You may or be repelled by or dislike a man and still have to let him push his cock into your mouth or cunt. Also, if you cannot face rejection and put-downs, you are lost – many guys will not select you or will only choose you once – it can be very ego deflating – especially when a guy says to you that your tits are too small, your cunt isn’t tight enough or that your face is ordinary. Often they talk to you about another girl who is “really hot”. I am lucky to have John who continually tells me how I am the sexiest girl in the world. I have seen girls come out of sessions in tears after a guy has said something insulting. Also a lot of guys get turned on by calling me a slut or a whore – I get turned on by it and regard it almost as a compliment but some girls get really upset.


If you have moral issues with whoring, don’t do it – you have to live with yourself and I’ve seen too many girls begin to hate themselves or at least lose all self respect. Others will treat you with contempt or as a strange object – so you’ve got to respect yourself.


Also it is not the safest job - there are crazy clients and, as we all should know, there are health concerns I don't want to focus on this but it is a fact..


One thing non-workers often do not think about is cleaning up. It can be a bigger issue than you think. Are you prepared to wash cum off your body, out of your hair, off your face? Are you ready to pull the condom off the guy and wipe him up- making sure not to spill? I like cum but a lot of girls are grossed out by it. Are you prepared to change the sheets and get the room ready for the next girl? (And some girls are really bad at this – I know from being the next to use!) Some of the biggest fights I have seen between girls have been about dirty rooms.


Finally, you can’t be a hooker and hate sex. It’ll destroy you quite quickly - I’ve seen it. A lot of girls are quite indifferent about sex. But enjoying it is by far the best and for girls who have a choice, I’d say don’t work unless you like fucking. Sue – even though she is lesbian – told me she tries to enjoy the cocks – that’s how she has lasted for over 10 years in the job. As you may have gathered, I love fucking but most girls are not quite so enthusiastic.


In the long run, the major motivation for working is of course money. It is often hard to give up working since you become addicted to the ready flow of cash. I might talk about this another time in my blog. Some girls love the money so much that they cope by counting the dollars as they spread their legs. Others like the attention from men as well – I am like that. Coping with it is different for every girl – one girl I know tells me she thinks of her new dresses each time she is being fucked – another said she thought of shoes and another thinks of her mortgage. Me? I have to be honest, I love money and what it buys but when I am working, I like to look in the mirror and see the cock going in and out and I think what a little slut I am.

Thursday 1 November 2007 - 12:10PM (EST)